هدف
البحث إلى معرفة مدى الفروق في الكف السلوكي لدى الأبناء وفقاً لمرتفعي/ منخفضي
الشفقة بالذات لدى الأمهات؛ والكشف عن الفروق بين الأمهات في الشفقة بالذات وفقا
ًلعدد من المتغيرات مثل: عمر الأم، عدد الأبناء، الدخل الشهري للأسرة، الحالة الاجتماعية
للأم؛ ومعرفة الفروق بين الأبناء في درجة الكف السلوكي وفقاً لمتغيري النوع (ذكور،
اناث)؛ العمر؛ المستوى الدراسي، وتكونت عينة البحث من (200) من الأمهات؛ و ( 200 )
من أبنائهن، (85) ولد، (115) بنت؛ طُبق
على العينة مقياسي الشفقة بالذات للأمهات ومقياس الكف السلوكي للأبناء
وأشارت النتائج إلى عدم وجود فروق دالة إحصائياً بين الأبناء في جميع أبعاد الاقبال/الكف
السلوكي والدرجة الكلية للمقياس وفقاً لمرتفعي ومنخفضي الشفقة بالذات لدى الأمهات
فيما عدا بعد الخوف من الإقدام فقد أظهرت النتائج وجود فروق بين الأبناء في الكف
السلوكي وفقاً لمرتفعي/منخفضي الشفقة بالذات وكانت الفروق في اتجاه الأبناء من
الأمهات منخفضي الشفقة بالذات؛ عدم وجود فروق دالة إحصائيا بين الأمهات على جميع
أبعاد مقياس الشفقة بالذات والدرجة الكلية للمقياس وفقاً لعمر الأم وحالتها
الاجتماعية فيما عدا بعدي (الإنسانية المشتركة) كانت الفروق في اتجاه الأمهات
المطلقات ، و(الإفراط في التوحد) كانت الفروق في اتجاه الأمهات الأرامل؛ و أسفرت
النتائج عن عدم وجود فروق داله إحصائياً بين متوسطات درجات الأمهات عينة البحث في
الدرجة الكلية لمقياس الشفقة بالذات وفقاً لعدد الأبناء.
الكلمات المفتاحية: لشفقة بالذات، الكف السلوكي، الإقدام، الأمهات، الأبناء.
The
research aimed to find out the extent of differences in Children’s behavioral
inhibition according to their mothers’ high/low self-compassion. Also, aimed to
reveal the differences between mothers in self-compassion according to the
mother’s age, the number of children, and the family’s monthly income, marital
status, Also aimed to know the differences between Childrens in the degree of
behavioral resistance according to gender, age, Educational level. The research
sample consisted of (200) mothers, their ages between; (200) of their children,
including (85) boys and (115) girls. The self-compassion and the behavioral
resistance scales ware applied to the sample. So, the results indicated that
there were no statistically significant differences between the children in all
dimensions of behavioral resistance and the total score of the scale according
to those with high and low self-compassion among mothers, except for the
dimension of fear of acting, the results showed that there were differences
between children in behavioral inhibition according to those who were high/low
on the dimensions of self-compassion, and the differences were in the direction
of children of mothers who were low in self- compassion. There are no
significant differences between mothers on all dimensions of the
self-compassion scale and the total score of the scale according to the
mother’s age or mother’s marital status, except for the two dimensions (common
humanity), the direction of divorced mothers, and (excessive autism), the direction
of widowed mothers.
Key
words: Self-compassion,
behavioral inhibition, behavioral action/resistance, Mothers and Children.
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